Poll: Cheating & Second Chances

I wanted this blog to be interactive plus I also want to know how others think when it comes to relationships.
Sooooo, I added a poll about cheating and second chances.
If you have time, it would be generous of you if you will answer the poll.
Would love to know how others think about second chances when it comes to cheating.
Thank you and have a great day.

Stubborn Heart

IMG_6770Stubborn Heart..
Hurting but still loving the one that causes the pain..
Scarred and yet not afraid of bleeding once again..

How long will this last?
It hurts that I’m still here trapped in this game..
While you easily fell in love again..

How many years have past?
My broken heart remains the same..
Stubborn to change despite all the pain..

Stubborn Heart..
For once, I hope you will listen..
Because deep inside you know, you deserve someone better..

*Wrote this poem in year 2008.. 
The year when I was hurting so much because of a past love..
Today is 2016- I just want to be clear, I have already moved on..

They Say..

IMG_6771They say that time can heal the wounds..
But how long should it take?
Impatience is ruling over me..
I’m sick of crying because of the same pain again and again..

They say that distance can help forget..
But how far should I go?

Loneliness is overwhelming me..
I’m scared of remembering the same memories again and again..

They say that finding someone else can make us move on..
But who else should I meet?
I’m tired of realizing that he’s still the one I love again and again..

But then, they also say,
True love never dies..
Maybe, I guess, this one is true..
Because in my heart I know that the one I truly love has always been you..

*Wrote this poem in year 2007.. 
The year when I was hurting so much because of a past love..
Today is 2016- I just want to be clear, I have already moved on.. 🙂

Reply 1988- Timing & Fate

1280x720-yjH“That’s why another word for fate is timing.
If I hadn’t gotten caught at just one of those red lights,
if those damned red lights had helped me out just once…
I might be standing in front of her right now, like fate.
My first love was always held back by damned timing.
That damn timing.”

“In the end, fate and timing do not just happen out of coincidence.
They are products of earnest, simple choices, that make up miraculous moments.
Being resolute, making decisions without hesitation—that is what makes timing.
He wanted her more than I did..
And I should have been more courageous.
It was not the the traffic light’s fault.
It was not timing..
But the countless times I hesitated.”

-Kim Jung-Hwan (Ryu Jun-Yeol)

Unrequited Love.
What can I say?
I am really sad that Jung Hwan was not able to express his love for Duk Seon.
He did have his chance but he lost it.

The quote above is my favorite quote from the drama.
His realization was also a wake up call for me.
I would also blame the timing or the circumstance but actually, deep inside,
I know that my decisions (or lack of) led me to where I am today.

Jung Hwan was a great character, a great second lead.
He knew he blew his chance and he gave way for Taek & Duk Seon to be together.
Sacrifice & friendship- more than his own happiness.

It pains me that he was only able to express his feelings through a joke.
However, I believe Duk Seon understood what he meant but she also knew
it was too late because she already fell for Taek.

I really thought Jung Hwan is the husband- he cared for her since the beginning.
Everyone who watched the show knows that.
But yah, I guess Reply 1988 wants to show us that not everyone gets the man/woman they love- even though we thought he was the main guy.

Reply 1988 will always give me that pinch of pain in the heart among the 3 Reply series.